tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049934439547651347.post8101882661887988772..comments2023-05-04T01:23:02.866-06:00Comments on Green Eyed Gurl: To Be Fat Like MeJR - A Green Eyed Gurl....http://www.blogger.com/profile/11726255362725707892noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049934439547651347.post-91738272381080852502007-01-15T13:45:00.000-06:002007-01-15T13:45:00.000-06:00Thanks BG - for now its going really well - feelin...Thanks BG - for now its going really well - feeling good, being told I am looking good and getting a better self-perception. <br /><br />On the stinky dinky subject, I am finished...tired of arguing - I have said what I have said - lolJR - A Green Eyed Gurl....https://www.blogger.com/profile/11726255362725707892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049934439547651347.post-70812967419659600742007-01-15T11:21:00.000-06:002007-01-15T11:21:00.000-06:00Jess:
Talking about a problem might not make i...Jess:<br /><br /> Talking about a problem might not make it go away, but it does do wonders with our own "coming to terms" with it...make no mistake about it. The worst thing we can do is internalize it, subdue it, and (in some extreme cases) readily ignore it. That's a path that leads to that slippery slope of self destruction...and we hate that road, don't we?<br /><br />But that's just my POV (from the inside looking in as "dinky-boy" would say...LOL)<br /><br />off-topic...that boy needs a refresher course in "Integrity 101"...(imho)!<br /><br />;)<br /><br />B.G.Bob G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09222203353717749897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049934439547651347.post-17658055741175487412007-01-14T10:36:00.000-06:002007-01-14T10:36:00.000-06:00It is an addiction the same as alcohol or drugs an...It is an addiction the same as alcohol or drugs and you cannot help a person until they want to help themselves. I have since having surgery and taken on a healthier lifestyle. I have lost a little over 20 pounds and I am walking daily. These are things that I decided to do on my own and didn't really discuss it with anyone, just started doing. The more I discuss it sometimes the more I destroy. After re-reading the post, I can see I am my own worst enemy and I know my perception of myself is skewed....I am harder on myself than others are. Yes - I have weight to lose that part is not distorted - but I am not obese....sighJR - A Green Eyed Gurl....https://www.blogger.com/profile/11726255362725707892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049934439547651347.post-77352438581306187292007-01-14T10:20:00.000-06:002007-01-14T10:20:00.000-06:00I saw the movie it was OK, but there were some go...I saw the movie it was OK, but there were some good points made.<br /><br />My wife has fought the battle of the bulge since her teens (she's 36 now), and I know first hand what she has to go through.<br /><br />In today's world, many of the issues in the movie were bang on target.<br /><br />People who are (insert whatever adjective that pertains to zaftig) have a very hard time with almost anything or anyone...<br /><br />My buddy who died at the age of 54 had complications from diabetes brought on by his weight. And he died at a younger age than my DAD did.<br /><br />My wife already has knees that are showing the first signs of problems.<br /><br />I keep telling here that she doesn't want a set of knee-replacement surgeries before 40 (or at any other time).<br /><br />Now I'm one of those people blessed with a good metabolism, and for how much longer I'll have it is anyone's guess, but that doesn't mean I can't relates to weighty problems of other people.<br /><br />It's about nature as well as nurture...and today's society speaks out of both side of it's mouth when it comes to nutrition.<br /><br />I just don't want to see my wife go through someting she can honestly avoid....and I sure don't want her to become disabled at an early age.<br /><br />Sure, I'm concerned...I'd have to be a fool NOT to be. And I'll help her any way I can...all SHE has to do is WANT it bad enough.<br /><br />B.G.Bob G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09222203353717749897noreply@blogger.com